Showing posts with label politics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label politics. Show all posts

Friday, August 28, 2020

Magical Thinking

 Magical Thinkers versus Evidence Seekers

Each creates alternative worlds that they believe in.


Each actively seeks for alternative solutions that they then work for.


This brings incredibly extreme polarization in our world today; 

both in the way we see the world and in the solutions we believe in.

What is Magical Thinking?

  • Belief that what we think about or say or wish for creates our world

  • Belief that what we refuse to think about won't happen


Magical thinking is a term used in anthropology, philosophy and psychology, denoting the causal relationships between thoughts, actions and events. There are subtle differences in meaning between individual theorists as well as amongst fields of study. (Wikipedia)

A negative example is psychosomatic illnesses where a person convinces himself that he is sick and then starts to see those symptoms in himself, whether they are real or not. The person literally makes himself sick though; i.e. thinks himself into sickness. Sometimes it is the stress and worry that actually makes him sick rather than a real sickness. Another example is denial. We think that if we refuse to believe something or think about something, it won’t happen.

There are also examples of magical thinking that are inevitable. A plausible example is gravity. We know that if we fall out of a tree, it will hurt or jump from a building high enough, it is quite certain that we will die. Not because we can explain it or because we believe it, but rather because we have experienced it enough to believe it. Another example is the sunrise. How do we know the sun will rise each day? And how do we know it will rise in the east? It is from our own repetitive experience that we know.

So we should not seek to eliminate all magical thinking from our lives. There will always be some form or other. But we need to bring a healthy dose of skepticism by questioning and inquiring into every aspect of our lives. I think some people are willing to sell their intellect or reasoning ability short because it is just easier to believe certain things, even if it may not be true. Often we convince ourselves to believe in things because it is more comfortable to do so. We like the security of certainty and the comfort of security. There is no one standard for a healthy person to meet when it comes to magical thinking. That is a standard that we each must set for ourselves.

For me, it is a matter of integrity that I not allow my life to be run by magical thinking. I think it is also a matter of our own commitment to truth. Am I willing to do the inner work necessary to discern truth and reality from fiction. When we look at the world and the problems, where do we begin? With magical thinking or by seeking evidence first.

“Magical thinking is defined as believing that one event happens as a result of another without a plausible link of causation. For example: ‘I got up on the left side of the bed today; therefore it will rain.’"

Or “a more nuanced definition of magical thinking would be believing in things more strongly than either evidence or experience justifies.” For reference, see Magical Thinking.

In each field of living there are a variety of spectrums for magical thinking. In spirituality or religion, there is much more tolerance for magical thinking than in science. In psychology there is much more tolerance for magical thinking than in philosophy.

The key is awareness, consciousness of our own thinking. So often our thoughts hijack us into solving problems so that there is no uncertainty. We HAVE to understand and we cannot STAND mystery or uncertainty.

Examples of Magical Thinking

“Trump supporters are far from the machinations of power, so government seems like magic to them. In Trump they’ve found *their* magician.”


Trump’s ability to envision the world he wants and speak it into existence is a sort of superpower. It doesn’t matter whether it is true or not. What matters is that he believes what he says and he keeps on repeating it until his followers believe it too.


Here is a positive example. On the New Amsterdam tv show last night, they saw a need to create a paleontology wing in the hospital so that those that were dying and had no place to go and no one to care for them could be cared for. One of the hospital staff was talking to a person that she just met that was dying of cancer. Nothing else could be done. And he would not talk. He could not express what he needed to be more comfortable. So they began to talk about life in general. He said that he was a professor and had always worked with numbers. Why, the other person asked. He said because he knew they were certain. I know death is certain too but as they talked he realized that in the face of the certainty of death, there is no certainty in death at all. No one knows what’s next because no one has experienced what is next, if anything at all. The staff person said that really numbers aren’t all that certain either. What is the biggest number? How many stars are there? How many snowflakes in a snowstorm?  As they talked he marveled at this uncertainty that he had been working with all of his life. It was then that he realized that it is the fear of uncertainty that he needed to face, not the fear of death. And like any fear, when we face it head on, it inevitably loses its power over us.


Looking at the political polarity today, there is very clearly something going on that is driving the thinking of different groups in very different ways. Some people are not capable of sorting through the complexities of our nation and all of the issues that complicate it even more like COVID 19, racial protests, police brutality, Americans shooting other Americans over differences, people defending their property with guns from peaceful protesters, peaceful protests turned violent by opportunists, the environment, extreme weather, refugees and immigrants, and on and on. If we look at each of the disruptive issues of our time we can see how different groups of people want to solve them. When you get to the root of the possible solutions, we are left with evidence or magic. People have an innate need for certainty and for the most part will do whatever it takes to feel certain, even though certainty is nothing more than another story that we are told and that we tell ourselves. 


When politics stokes fears in the general population using all of the above issues, many people have no idea what to do. When people are full of fear, anger, and loss of control, they reach for any answers that will give them the comfort they want, even when the comfort and security are also just stories in their heads that they are being told and that they then tell themselves. Facts and reality and research take too much work which frankly is beyond the capacity of so many people these days. So a grand savior, a strongman riding in on his “horse” of power proclaiming, “I am the people’s president” accomplishes exactly what this person’s agenda has been all along. Make people scared enough to see him as the only answer, even though he has no answers to offer. It doesn’t matter. The illusion (story) of answers is all people need. Then their faith can take it from there. Faith in what? Anything they choose to believe in. Magical Thinking becomes the only possible answer. Evidence Seekers are the alternative which takes far too much work. Magical thinkers think and speak evidence thinkers into “evil” by using a myriad of labels and name-calling. So there you have it. The polarization of the population between Magical Thinkers and Evidence Seekers. See more in this video clip. It is quite an eye opener.


The Politics of Magical Thinking

Check out this politically balanced article from a conservative perspective. He quotes a twitter post by an old friend that I knew from a church care group that I attended.


James K.A. Smith made a valuable point on Twitter yesterday:

Trump supporters are far from the machinations of power, so government seems like magic to them. In Trump they’ve found *their* magician.

— James K.A. Smith (@james_ka_smith) March 2, 2016

“For the last century, progressives have been critics of local government and civil society. Not without justification, they’ve attacked the corruption, inefficiency, and injustice of political parties, town councils, private charities, and proposed national solutions to otherwise overwhelming problems. Conservatives bear responsibility, too. Dogmatic hostility to unions has helped marginalize the most effective form of association available to workers in large enterprises.

“The problem is that national solutions have rarely been as easy or successful as promised, while purely individual efforts are impotent. Rather than qualified confidence in energetic politics, centralization promotes a vaguely schizophrenic combination of hope that government can do everything with the knowledge it’s failed in the past. Those are the conditions in which magical thinking thrives. It’s especially appealing when the institutions that once allowed citizens to exercise control over their common affairs are neutered or moribund.

“Trump, in other words, is just a symptom. The disease is older, and also more frightening. Once we’ve lost our capacity for meaningful self-government it’s almost impossible to get it back. As Tocqueville foresaw nearly two hundred years ago:

“It is in vain to summon a people, which has been rendered so dependent on the central power, to choose from time to time the representatives of that power; this rare and brief exercise of their free choice, however important it may be, will not prevent them from gradually losing the faculties of thinking, feeling, and acting for themselves, and thus gradually falling below the level of humanity. I add that they will soon become incapable of exercising the great and only privilege which remains to them.”

https://www.theamericanconservative.com/articles/the-politics-of-magical-thinking/



Trump, QAnon and The Return of Magic

https://youtu.be/Ca2DSsuE7jI 

This is the video documentary that helped me see the delineation between Magical Thinkers and Evidence Seekers. Very powerful look at social media and conspiracy theories.

A major point made is simply this. Anyone that is making decisions “by my gut” is really a manly way of saying “by my feelings.” No advice, no experts, no research, no facts, no science, just feelings. How does that make you feel about the leader of America and the most powerful person in the world making decisions “by my gut”? Well, we learn to see the world according to what we are told and according to what we wish for. We speak only words that express what we wish for. Anything that disagrees with our wishes is rejected or screened out and not seen at all. This includes such things as reality, facts, evidence. And we wonder why there are so many religious people using magical thinking???


Donald Trump's Magical Thinking

Please watch and share this video and learn how Donald Trump's Magical Thinking is affecting you, your life, your family, and your country!

By Frank Schaeffer the son of great theologian Francis Schaeffer, a founder of Evangelical Christianity. He grew up with other sons of the founders, Jerry Falwell Jr and Franklin Graham. 

In this video, he apologizes for for the part that he had in creating the religious right by joining democracy with evangelical christianity for the sake of power by using a platform of anti-abortion, anti-women, anti-gay, anti-immigrent stoked with fear, rage, and the fear of loss of control of their lives.


Thursday, July 30, 2020

What Works?


Are we getting the results we intend?

Is there incongruence between our thoughts and actions?


It seems to me that we, as Americans, are getting the results we never intended.

We are on a path of the destruction of democracy. No one intended that.

We are more divided than we ever have been. No one intended that.

We feel hatred and animosity from fellow Americans everyday. No one intended that.

Our enemies are increasing around the world and also within our borders. Fellow Americans are creating enemies and monsters right next door even though it may not be true.


If we keep on doing what we have been doing, we will never get a different result but we will continue to get the result we have been getting. That’s the way life works.


Who are we as human beings? Who are we as Americans?

Why are we so divided? Why do we have so much fear and hate?

What are we afraid of? Who and why do we hate?

This is not who we are. We have forgotten who we are.

But what can we do? It always begins with me.


In a world of such complexity and confusion, there is a defining principle, a clarifying question that may help us cut through all of the ideas and beliefs that we choose to follow.


We choose to follow certain principles because they are taking us where we want to go, to accomplish what we want to accomplish. We choose to follow, we follow, then we lose our way.


One way of sorting this out this is to remember that as human beings, we are defined by our actions, by our love, by our visible ‘fruits”, by the impact of the lives we live on others, in the same way that a tree is identified by its fruit. If we see an apple on a tree, we do not call it a peach tree. We know by what is seen that it is definitely an apple tree. 

Tuesday, July 14, 2020

Triggering Fear

Fearmongering

I find it very interesting how words related to fear have become very popular lately. 

Xenophobia

Agoraphobia

Homophobia

Androphobia

Anthropophobia

Gynophobia

Arachnophobia

Autophobia


And there is even phobophobia, the fear of phobias.


Phobias are a type of anxiety disorder. Anxiety disorders are very common. They’re estimated to affect more than 30 percent of U.S. adults at some time in their lives.

https://www.healthline.com/health/list-of-phobias


What triggers fear?

Real danger that triggers a fight or flight response for survival.

Imagined danger that can be triggered by words and phrases, anxiety and phobias.


Most of our lives, we live in fear…

… fear of the future

… fear of the past

… fear of regret

… fear of failure

… fear of falling short

… fear of what others might think

… fear of having too little

… fear of not achieving enough

… fear of losing things and people

… fear of death

… fear of life and really living

 

Why do we fear that which we do not agree,

that which is not the same?

Diversity and divergent perspectives are everywhere...

the essence of life itself.

 

Why do we fear what we do not understand,

that which may be beyond understanding?

Mystery and uncertainty is everywhere...

the essence of life itself.

 

So we must learn to...

Embrace mystery.

Embrace diversity.

Embrace change.


Amygdala: Instinctively Triggering Fear

Why do we attack that which we fear?

When there is now rarely a need 

for the survival response of fear?


Here's why...

 

Being a Victim of Change

Being a victim in and of a changing world
(focusing on white fragility)


In a world that is changing exponentially, in a world where knowledge

of our world is changing exponentially, we can choose to keep up or to play the role of the victim whining about what we do not like and do not understand; either because we can't or because we refuse.


For a long time, I refused to not share anything related to politics or religion on social media because of the compulsive trolls that get a kick out of social media bullying. I get a kick out of people that think they know me more than I know myself and have all the perfect labels and names to call me. I never go to other people's facebook page and argue. I feel that is insulting and crossing boundaries. But I tell them that, although their insults are not welcome on my page, they are free to take anything from my page and start an argument on their own page. (I don't think that works) BUT what has changed is that I will not let someone come at me with this know-it-all attitude that is so prevalent now days without me speaking the truth in love back to them.


This is the email forward sent sent by a family member. Below is my response.


The Email: privilege or fragility?

The content of this email is a perfect example of two of my recent posts:   https://livingwithopenhands2.blogspot.com/2020/04/labeling-categorizing-and-eliminating.html and
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Sunday, July 12, 2020

Compassion First

Compassion First???

A requirement and priority for being human 

as well as a test of the authenticity of all the religious as well as the nonreligious.

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It seems we have forgotten.

We must remember what we’ve always known.

If we are to live together as human beings, then we must learn to put love central to our politics and our religion.

As the Dalai Lama says,  “My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.”

"Rather than take religious views and teachings to be ultimate statements of absolute truth, they might be better understood as skillful means to liberate the mind. Instead of pitting one view against another, we might let go of rigid attachment to any view, and ask the very pragmatic question, “Is this teaching leading my heart and mind to greater wisdom and peace, to greater kindness and compassion? Or does it lead to more divisiveness, to more selfishness, to more violence?” ("Mindfulness, Compassion & Wisdom: Three Means To Peace" by Joseph Goldstein)

“A compassionate city is an uncomfortable city!
A city that is uncomfortable when anyone is homeless or hungry.
Uncomfortable if every child isn't loved and given rich opportunities to grow and thrive.
Uncomfortable when any group anywhere in the world is marginalized or oppressed.
Uncomfortable when as a community we don't treat our neighbors as we would wish to be treated.”
(Karen Armstrong, Charter for Compassion)