Digesting and Discerning Truth
Originally Posted on April 1, 2017 in Living with OPen Hands 1.0
If a person says that my statement is judgmental, isn’t THAT being judgmental? Am I being judgmental by asking this question???
Why do we so often judge others and their ideas? What do we fear? Why do we need to set things straight right then and right there?
What is true anyway? Well, it depends on each person’s perspective. 10 people can see the same situation and come away with 10 different descriptions of that same situation.
Do I need to be right? Does truth need to be “defended”? Why?
Can it not stand on its own? Usually we “defend” the weak and vulnerable from being hurt or destroyed? Is that what we think about truth? Is it our duty to defend the truth? If we do not defend it, then it will melt away or become a victim of an overpowering idea?
Can it not stand on its own? Usually we “defend” the weak and vulnerable from being hurt or destroyed? Is that what we think about truth? Is it our duty to defend the truth? If we do not defend it, then it will melt away or become a victim of an overpowering idea?
What is the source of our constant argumentation? Why do we cut ourselves short of understanding another? What do we fear? Being wrong? Not being right? Being different? Being the same?
We spend our lives quibbling facts and disputing words without bothering to understand what it is we are disputing and quibbling about... or why.
Do we even want to understand another? Are we afraid of their difference? Are we afraid of our own ideas crumbling, or crashing down around us, or melting away?
Understanding requires the effort and the intention to understand.
Understanding requires the effort and the intention of listening.
Why is it so hard to listen?
We cannot listen
- Over our chattering mind
- Over our need to be right
- If we are busy formulating our response
- If we already think we know what the person is going to say
- If we judge the person’s words and ideas
- If we are busy labeling right or wrong